Problems don't solve themselves, and yes people can help you but there are things that you just have to face on your own.

When you were young, parents were invincible....The sky can fall you know your parents will be there holding it up you...protecting you. I was just on the phone to my mother and every time I hear her over the phone I can't help but cry..and I cry every time I think about her. She has become so frail....we use to have these hour long conversations, but now I struggle to keep her on the phone for more than five, and all I can hear are whispers over the line. I am now the one telling her everything will be ok..being positive and strong for her. The depression is really getting the better of her...she's trying to fight it, but she also tells me "no matter what happens to me..just work hard and concentrate on your studies". I really wish there is something I can do to take all her troubles away....win the lotto?....All I can really do is tell her to be strong. Just live past this year and half and I will go and earn money....enough money to fly her over and let her enjoy what she loves the most.....Traveling. There really isn't enough life times for me to repay my mother..for what she has done for me...and for the family.